Anxiety therapy in Palo Alto for the life that looks fine from the outside.
What Brings People Here
You are not anxious because
something went wrong.
You are anxious because of how much you are holding.
The mind that will not stop reviewing
Intrusive worry · Rumination
It is 1 AM. You are replaying a work conversation from four days ago, cataloguing what you should have said, checking whether anyone noticed something you cannot name. The reviewing never produces a verdict. It just continues.
Calm on the surface, depleted underneath
High-Functioning Anxiety
You hold the room. You are reliable, prepared, composed. Nobody knows that by the time you get home, there is nothing left. High-functioning anxiety is the kind that wins awards and quietly exhausts the person carrying it.
Guilt with no clear object
Chronic Guilt · Perfectionism
Not guilt about something specific. A background guilt about not being enough — not grateful enough, not productive enough, not present enough for your parents, your partner, your children. It arrived before you had words for it.
Decisions that feel frozen
Anxiety · Avoidance
The career question. The relationship decision. Whether to move closer to family or farther. Every option carries the weight of disappointing someone whose opinion matters. So you stay exactly where you are, which also has a cost.
A body that stays on alert
Somatic Anxiety
Jaw tension. Shoulders that never release. A chest that tightens before calls. A stomach that knows before you do. The body is braced for something, even in safe rooms.
Anxiety that crossed borders with you
Immigration · Intergenerational Stress
First generation. 1.5 generation. The child of immigrants who has never left. Each position carries its own particular weight — the grief of in-between, the labor of translation, the pressure of being the proof that it was all worth it. This is often not a footnote to the anxiety. It often is the anxiety.
The Team
The people you’d be working with.

Moitreyee Chowdhury
Couples · Individual · Family · Trauma
Moitreyee founded Leela because the practices available to South Asian and immigrant couples in the Bay Area kept asking people to explain themselves first. Her couples work is integrative — CBT, DBT, Family Systems, trauma-focused — but the work always starts from what each person brought in before they met. She trained in fine arts in Delhi, worked in stage design and puppetry in Germany, and has practiced in California for over two decades. A published poet. Sessions in English, Hindi, and Bengali.

Therapist Name
Couples · Individual · Multicultural Families
Bio to be added. This clinician works with couples and individuals, with particular attention to East Asian and immigrant families navigating relational stress. Trauma-informed. Available in English and [language TBD].

Therapist Name
Couples · Young Adults · Life Transitions
Bio to be added. This clinician works with couples and young adults, with a focus on life transitions and the particular pressures of growing up between two cultures. CBT and DBT. Supervised by Moitreyee Chowdhury, LMFT #121934. Available in English and [language TBD].
“Anxiety therapy that does not require you to explain your whole background first.”
Clinical Methods
Evidence-based approaches,
chosen for the person.
CBT
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy examines the relationship between thought patterns and the anxiety they generate. For clients with perfectionism, fear of disappointing others, or persistent self-monitoring, CBT makes the loop visible. Once the pattern can be named, it can be interrupted. CBT at Leela is adapted to work alongside a client’s values and cultural frame — not against them.
DBT
Dialectical Behavior Therapy
Dialectical Behavior Therapy offers specific, practicable skills for the moments when anxiety is largest — when the emotion is too big and the window for clear thinking has narrowed. At Leela, DBT addresses a particular tension many clients know well: the gap between the culturally expected response and the emotionally honest one. The skills give you more room to move inside your values, not outside them.
EMDR
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing
EMDR is used at Leela Mental Health for anxiety that has a history — experiences never fully processed that the nervous system is still responding to long after the event has passed. This includes childhood academic pressure, early loss, discrimination, immigration, and relational ruptures. Moitreyee Chowdhury is EMDR Trained. EMDR is the approach for anxiety that talking alone has not been able to reach.
Family Systems
Family Systems Work
For many clients, the anxiety is not only individual — it lives in inherited roles, in rules about who is allowed to need what, in patterns that were never chosen but have been carried for decades. Family Systems work at Leela Mental Health makes those structures visible without blame. The goal is not to reject the family. It is to understand what was assigned so the client can decide, consciously, what to carry forward.
Who Comes to Leela
Anxiety at different
chapters of life.

Carrying visible success and private weight

When achievement and anxiety become the same thing

Between the plan and what is actually happening
What Brings People Here
You are not anxious because
something went wrong.
You are anxious because of how much you are holding.
Cultural competence is not a feature. It is the foundation.
Most therapy practices describe themselves as culturally sensitive. Leela Mental Health was built by and for people who carry the specific weight of South Asian and East Asian identity — immigration, intergenerational expectation, the pressure of being the success story. Clients do not spend the first months explaining their context. That context is already understood before the first session begins.
Clinically rigorous methods — CBT, DBT, EMDR, Family Systems.
General support is available everywhere. What is harder to find is a practice that applies specific evidence-based methods with precision to what a particular client actually presents. Leela Mental Health uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, and Family Systems approaches — each chosen for the pattern a client carries, not offered as a standard menu.
In English, Hindi, and Bengali.
For clients who have spent years finding clinical language in a language that is not the one they think or feel in — the option to work in Hindi or Bengali is not a small accommodation. It changes what can be named. Leela Mental Health offers sessions in all three languages. If you want to work in Hindi or Bengali, say so when you reach out. We will make it happen.
What people ask before reaching out.
I have been managing my anxiety for years. Why would therapy be any different now?
Will I have to spend sessions explaining my cultural background?
What kind of anxiety does Leela Mental Health work with?
I'm not sure my anxiety is serious enough. Do I qualify?
Does Leela offer telehealth anxiety therapy across California?
What does anxiety therapy cost? Does insurance cover it?
Good Faith Estimate: If you are paying out of pocket or not using insurance, you have the right to a written Good Faith Estimate before your first session. Read the full notice ➞
Something in this has been
waiting for a room where
it can be said plainly.
When you are ready, this is where to begin.
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